Grandma has always been the main force with children, because they will feel sorry for their daughters.
For some elderly people who have time and energy, they will feel very happy to be able to help their children, not to mention the next generation of parents, the babies are so cute, and grandmothers will hardly complain.
But when the grandchildren grow up, the grandmothers all have a feeling.
Those grandchildren who were almost their own little asses before suddenly stopped kissing themselves one day, and they didn't even like to come to their own homes.
Why are children like this? In fact, they also have bitter feelings.
Xiao Wei had just finished the middle school entrance examination, and his mother offered to let him go to his grandmother's house to live for a few days, after all, his grandmother had been nagging Xiao Wei.
Before because of the sprint entrance examination, Xiao Wei had not been to his grandmother's house for a long time, and his mother thought that Xiao Wei would readily agree, but he didn't expect Xiao Wei to want to refuse.
This made his mother angry, and kept nagging in his ear how his grandmother brought him up since he was a child, saying that Xiaowei was a white-eyed wolf and did not know how to be grateful at all.
Xiao Wei quickly explained that he loved his grandmother, but he really didn't want to go to his grandmother's house.
My mother was helpless, but she still forced Xiao Wei to have a meal at her grandmother's house.
Although Xiao Wei went, he quickly urged his mother to go home after eating, which made the family feel a little embarrassed.
Children like Xiaowei are not alone, many children were raised by their grandmothers when they were young.
But when they grow up, they don't want to go to their grandmother's house, what kind of bitterness do they have?
1. Outside discussion.
As children grow up, they will naturally become more and more sensible, and many children will be very in the unexpected world.
So when someone around him jokes that the child is a guest of his grandfather's house, it is inevitable that some thoughts will appear in the child's heart.
Gradually feel that you are a foreigner in your grandmother's house, naturally you will feel uncomfortable, and you don't like to go again.
2. Want your own space.
As children get older, their sense of self grows.
When they are young, they will rely on their parents and family around them, but when they grow up, even if they still love their families, they also want to have their own independent space.
And going to the grandmother's house means facing their concern and that of some relatives, which will make the child instinctively resist.
3. Be more constrained.
If it is when they are young, then the child does everything right, even if they clamore for something to eat, or even pout their mouths and get angry, it is a very cute expression in everyone's eyes.
But when they grow up, everything changes, and parents will repeatedly tell them to abide by the rules when they go to their grandmother's house, which naturally makes the child have too many constraints and can't let go.
In fact, when children grow up, they will have their own circle of friends, and they often do not like to communicate with their families, but like to talk about their hearts with classmates around them.
At this time, parents must learn to respect their children, understand their children, and not forcibly join their children's social circles, but give their children certain freedom.
If the child does not like to go to the grandmother's house, then presumably the first reaction of many mothers is to burst into a thunderous jump.
But the correct way should be to communicate with the child and understand why the child has such thoughts, so as to correctly guide the child, let the child know the love of the elders for them, and at the same time let the child feel the understanding of their parents.
Of course, this is often just a stage, when the child is really mature and sensible, he will naturally know how to be grateful.
1. Nonsense,-- Dream Jade 83
2. Provoke things - Zhang Lao K1
3. There are many people who are willing to go to their grandmother's house. --Handbei SD
4, mainly to see whether the child is comfortable staying at the grandmother's house, in the final analysis, this is actually a problem of parents, what is the matter of the child. --qaxwsxedc70
5. This is just nonsense. The author fell from the sky. It won't be too old. --Planted Crane 2W
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