I used to ask myself why I liked him every time I talked about marriage, and I answered that because he was good to me, how he was good to you, I couldn't think of it, I missed a lot of boys who could get married because of the entanglement in this issue.
I think this quirk of mine ** was when I was a child, not writing homework, the teacher shouted out and asked "why don't you write homework" I replied "I forgot "teacher" why did you forget "me" I missed homework "teacher" why did you miss "teacher" why don't you forget to eat"
At this point in the conversation, I generally choose to be silent, because I have found the answer in this process, I am actually lazy, I thought I could remember these homework, so I did not want to copy, indicating that my lazy cancer when I was young was actually very serious, it is said that this kind of repeated inquiry is called Kaizhi in philosophy, in my entire student years this kind of inquiry often happened to me, although I did not enjoy the beautiful sequelae of Kaizhi brought by pursuit, but I learned to ask myself repeatedly in every big thing, Why did you do this, would you give up on yourself because you liked him? So in these inquiries, I found my inadequacy, my timidity and low self-esteem, so some things I will slowly change myself, and some things such as laziness and sycophancy have penetrated into the bone marrow and cannot be changed.
Because of the harsh introspection of myself, so I fell into this embarrassing state, when I met someone who liked me, I would ask him why he liked me, because I was beautiful, beautiful and not long, then forget it, why is he good to me, because I deserve him to be good to me, why am I worthy of him being good to me, what if he finds that I am not good, it is better to forget than to be disliked, and when I meet my favorite, I will ask why I am so wronged myself, Why is it so silly to like a person who doesn't like himself so much, decisively there is no follow-up.
I also felt that this kind of repeated questioning was too abnormal, and I once thought that I would marry blindly and dumbly.
Until I met an unmarried big sister, she is a typical woman who is loyal to her own feelings, her view of love is that if I don't like him, I don't want to wronged myself for a minute, she said that being single is just a problem, I love how to deal with it, if I wronged myself casually marry off, once the problem occurs is three times, you have to solve the three families' views on things, I am a very real person, let me keep compromising to accommodate others to wronged themselves, I am reluctant to do so to myself.
This eldest sister's words are certainly a little one-sided, but she does speak my heart, I am also a person who thinks about the same problem repeatedly, and even carefully considers and considers a matter again, such a person is acceptable if he is a friend, if he is a life partner, it will really harm others.
Becoming a leftover fighter is not the intention, but with the progress of society, we have caused such an embarrassing single for various reasons, we and many family life is the same beautiful existence, but our family is only one person, we also create value for the development of this society, like more real people like to repeatedly ponder people, in fact, single is more conducive to promoting social harmony, after all, family relations are more true is equal to quarrel, rare confusion is an important factor to maintain a family, And I'm obviously not, so I'm fine alone. What do you say?
1. To use a figurative metaphor, we are like shooting stars, although the time in the sky is so short, but still leave the brightest light [shy] - black people and dolls.
2. Women must not believe the nonsense of "I raise a girl". You must be financially independent. --Baidu netizen 3c369c8c
3. You can also raise a male third son - I love children.
4. Agree with your statement, this woman is a silly word - circular potatoes.
5. Noodles with dumplings on the feet! --Dominating the Wind Dance.
6, when you know that your husband is cheating, the psychological rift cannot be repaired, whenever you want to be good to him, his betrayal always appears in your mind, at that time you will hate your heart, and go back even more - put an end to high-level fun 58e29c
7. Middle-aged women live the most hated appearance because they forget to love themselves, and they are the most important. --Slubling and comma-ratios are both scoop 19b
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