Now more and more girls will hang on their lips that they will die alone, saying that they don't want to fall in love, many people will think that this girl must be emotionally hurt or too demanding, their scores are not high, but they want to find a full score.
There are such girls, but not all of them, and there is a category of girls who know very well that they will "die alone" just because: "I can no longer meet someone who is better than my predecessor, so people who are not as good as him do not even have the desire to develop."
Have you ever had an ex who has been gone for a long time but still admires him?
When I had dinner with my good friend Zhou Zhou a few days ago, I didn't know how to talk about feelings, and then I asked: Has he ever come to you? Jing nodded quietly and said: He has looked for me, but every time he finds me is not to reconcile with me, his tone is as if the two of us have never broken up, do you understand?
Before this, I only knew that she was in love with a man who was much more mature than her, but I was not very clear about the specific situation, because she didn't mention it before, I didn't ask, she naturally told me when she wanted to share it with me, just like at dinner that day, she shared her story with her ex.
They determined that the relationship was very fast, he was her general manager when she used to work part-time, because her WeChat signature "people ugly should read more" to add her WeChat, and then occasionally chatted, but at that time I didn't think much about it, because he is not my type, average appearance (used to be Yan Control), I will not know that I can be deeply infatuated with such a man, maybe it is "personality charm".
The day the relationship was confirmed was in his car, and suddenly he parked the car in the emergency lane of the highway, without warning, very domineeringly kissed me, and we started.
It feels safe to be with him, he thinks about all the things I can't think of for me with his mature mind, and he seems to "divination" to predict what will happen to you later.
He can always solve all kinds of problems for me, he can help me solve anything I encounter, he will give me everything he thinks is the best, "even the notes he gave me are the names of our children in the future."
Every time I go out, he will take me to experience the best hotel, he said that he does not want me to live in a very bad environment, at first with him I thought he was just to ** with me, but then I found that my previous thoughts were really naïve, and to this day I feel that I am really lucky to meet him, because the more mature a man he knows how to love you.
I remember what I said that because of family reasons, my family wanted me to get married and live close to them, and he said: Then we will buy a house near your house, and he will go to see the house by himself on weekends.
After seeing the house, I will stay downstairs in my house for a while before leaving, including who will take him when the child is born in the future.
He would look different if he gave me a gift, and once suddenly said to take me to the mountains to see the stars, pointed to the sky and said, "Look, that star is yours." I was still joking with him, look, this is still the foundation for you."
Unexpectedly, he really took out a box from the car and asked me to open it, a star association certificate, with the specific star location and star name, I was also confused at that time, he said: This is a star I named for you on the star association, I think you should have such a unique and commemorative gift. You deserve all the good things.
A good relationship not only brings you happiness, but also allows you to continuously improve yourself.
He would take me with him every time he traveled, and when he talked to clients, I was like his secretary, responsible for making tea and pouring water next to him, watching his way of talking and his thinking logic, and sometimes I would take out my own paper and pen to take notes.
Maybe because of the age gap and the different things we experienced, our thoughts and patterns are too far apart, and I sometimes want to make myself better and stand by his side. At least in previous relationships I didn't think so.
After thinking back to his previous relationship, he felt that his previous relationship was a complete waste of time, and he even regretted that he couldn't give him the best things.
After listening to it, I couldn't help but ask, why did such a seemingly perfect relationship come to an end?
Zhou Zhou said: Not all good in a relationship, later because of my work, we are not in a city, said to come to see me twice a week, but every time can not do it, he is indeed very busy, because a mature man will not revolve around you all day.
But this may also be growth, people are always experiencing growth. After going through this relationship, I will know what I want!
They may just know what they want.
Zhou Zhou said; After separating from him, I also thought about falling in love, but it was too difficult to meet someone as good as him, just as difficult as the **** vote, it's not that I don't want to fall in love, it's that I can't accept someone who is not as good as me.
This relationship is actually very envious and okay with me as a girl, so which girls you feel "high-sighted" and don't want to fall in love are just because she has experienced someone better than you.
Whether in love or in friend communication, people are selfish and want to get closer to people who are better than themselves.
Hereinafter. High energy.
Poisonous chicken soup. Here it comes!
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