In real life, we will always hear our girlfriends and friends complaining to us about their boyfriend's shortcomings, and after a burst of indiscriminate bombardment, they feel more aggrieved, and Bawang and his boyfriend quickly break up. As the brightest light bulb – we usually patiently comfort her, enlighten her, and let her go as soon as she feels pain. But something magical will happen again - in the blink of an eye, they will begin to show affection again, leaving you with a confused look waiting in place. This also explains the phenomenon that young people often fall in love now, why sometimes you feel that you don't like him anymore, but you are still reluctant to break up? The three girls below spoke their minds.
Wang Rou, female, 25 years old: I am afraid of losing someone who cares about me.
My breakup with my ex-boyfriend has been on and off for a long time, and although I know in my heart that I don't like him anymore, but seeing all the care he has for me, I still can't bear to say the word breakup, and I always want to wait again and again to see what I really think in my heart. For my behavior, I myself also feel a little selfish, I actually don't want to let go, don't want to lose someone who loves me so much, but since I can't give him love anymore, dragging it on to the end will only make the breakup more and more difficult and complicated, so I finally decided to propose a breakup. Although it is painful, it is worth it to suffer more than to make him suffer.
Yu Lianxiao, female, 28 years old: Dating him has slowly become a habit.
I wanted to break up with my ex-boyfriend because I knew that there were really inappropriate things between our personalities and some other aspects, and that personality and living habits were difficult to change, and it should be difficult for us to go to the end, even if we went to the end, it would be too much suffering. But I can't open my mouth every time I want to break up, because I'm used to having him in my life, used to the days when he laughs and scolds around me, and I still have a lot of reluctance in my heart if I want to separate all of a sudden. But then I thought clearly, if this day is going to come sooner or later, I can't escape, and evasion can't solve anything.
3. Quan Mengfan, female, 23 years old: The lover's aura still played a big role.
My girlfriend always didn't understand why I found such a boyfriend, compared with me, he has a certain gap in appearance and financial conditions, and many people think that I don't have the vision to look at him. Maybe in the eyes of my lover Xi Shi, in my eyes he still has many advantages, such as kindness, patience and so on. Until one time I found out that he had cheated on my feelings, and by this time my feelings for him had changed from love to hate. I resolutely chose to break up, but at the time of the breakup, I still remembered what we had experienced together, remembered his good, and almost decided to wronged myself to continue living, but fortunately, in the end, I remembered my bottom line, so I didn't make this low-level mistake.
Breaking up requires calm thinking and a crisp attitude. Love, whether it begins or ends, should leave no regrets and follow the heart. If you already know from the bottom of your heart that it is impossible between the two of you, then you must bravely say goodbye to your current life and welcome a new self and life. As long as you live in the world and keep looking for happiness, happiness will always come again. If you rely too much on short, illusory bubbles, when you have to face the cold side of reality, the pain will only increase.
1. Is it really good to install it like this - Heshui Old Town.
2. People will slowly become the people they hated the most before, because the reality - Zhou Caiyue is a pig.
3. The humility low in the dust cannot be exchanged for the respect of the other party. Learn to love yourself before loving others, and don't let your heart be scarred again and again. --Rainbow Qian Yulong after the rain.
4, don't love you, humble or something, there is no point at all - Guo Pinzhi.
5. Blindly chasing will make him go farther and farther, divert your energy to yourself, spend more effort for yourself, and strive to make yourself excellent, so that he can impress you - all skin rulers.
6. Blindly chasing will make him go farther and farther, divert your energy to yourself, spend more effort for yourself, and strive to make yourself excellent, so that he can be impressed by you - sick little carpenter.
7. When you wear it out with your own hands, your imprint in the other person's heart exhausts all patience for you! You can't change back to your original appearance in humble humility! [Grimacing]--Alone in the empty city to bring you back.
8. There is nothing to be angry about in the world, except for the kind of people and gods who are angry - Yaoyuan Zhibo.
9. This mainly depends on the mentality - I want to be shoulder to shoulder with the sky.
10. See Dong Ge being set like this? Scared. There will be no good end in the future - be cautious and do not care.
11, today her sister found me, asked us what the situation, said to send him a message does not return, hit ** does not answer, said that the Mid-Autumn Festival went to my house to give gifts, by the way engaged, I said that he broke up with me, and his family does not know, he will only escape, since the choice should be faced, I also know that you really don't like me like this, I also accept, your character never thinks about your own problems, I hope you can meet the person you love her and she loves you - everyone.
12. Be the most true self, simple, not hypocritical, sincere to friends, and ignore villains. Live well only with the people who cherish you, the rest is not important. --Ying Zhao the Great.
13. Someone told him to retire, otherwise he would not end well, he would definitely know the practice - Lu Guchi.
14. He and the current young people have no good style, they are to find the best step for themselves to ,-- a pot of chicken feet juice.
15. What is the last sentence? --There are so many troubles in life.
16. I encountered a similar situation! No matter what you do, you don't get a response or get a cold response. Learning to love yourself! --Zo Wan's death.
17. Worthy of yourself and worthy of the future - Fruit Farmer Lecture Hall.
18. Deleted good [approve] [approve] - gaffe Kasumigi Shita.
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